Thursday, May 17, 2012
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Matter of Fact Monday 05/14 by tlbethel | Blog Tal...
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Matter of Fact Monday 05/14 by tlbethel | Blog Tal...: Matter of Fact Monday 05/14 by tlbethel | Blog Talk Radio Me interviewing with Tommy!! May is National foster care awareness month..come ou...
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Happy Mothers Day!
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL! DO BETTER THAN YOUR PARENTS BY LOVING UNCONDITIONALLY, TEACHING, RESPECT TO OTHERS AND SELF AND TEACH YOUR KIDS TO LOVE LIFE! XO TANYA
Monday, April 23, 2012
May 18th celebration reminder
Smile, you may save or change a life! Tanya
Sunday, April 1, 2012
Words from Tony Robbins on Own...
Hi blog family!
I like to give credit when do AND if someone else can say something to save or change your life........I let them speak and share what they say!
Tony Robbins is a brilliant man who gets "how to live and enjoy life".... I got this from Oprah's own, (forgive me O) lol... but good stuff must be shared!!! enjoy!!
The life coach and host of Breakthrough with Tony Robbins believes in living a passionate life, a life in which fear is a counselor, not a jailer. Here, he shows us how to "step up" during our most intimidating moments:
1. Don't Turn an Excuse into an Identity
We need be careful of how we label ourselves, for example, saying "I'm an fearful person" or "I'm a weak person" or "I'm not a strong person." Usually that label comes from your current or past behavior, but once the label becomes a part of you, it starts to control you. So what I try to get people to understand is: Hey, you're not broken. You don't need to be fixed. You don't need a label. All you need to do is say, "I have to decide how I want to be now going forward."
2. Develop a Habit
Courage is not the absence of fear. That idea is the biggest b.s. in the world. Fear is impossible to eradicate. If you were completely fearless, you'd be dead. People who are courageous are scared to the core—they just make themselves go forward anyway; they make themselves take some kind of action. Taking action, even though you're afraid, is how you become courageous—because courage, like fear, is a habit. The more you do it, the more you do it, and this habit—of stepping up, of taking action—more than anything else, will move you in a different direction.
3. Let Your Body Lead the Way
Taking that action for the first time can be pretty rough. When it comes time to give the speech to the committee or snowboard down the mountain, don't hesitate. Don't start to analyze it. The longer you stand there, the harder it gets, because then your mind gets involved. If your challenge is mental, use your body. If it's in the body, use your body more aggressively. At 17 years old, I was on my own, sleeping in a laundry room. I had no idea what to do. I was so depressed. Fear is physically debilitating. I had to defeat it. So I made myself run until I thought I was going to spit up blood. I got stronger in my body, which, in turn gave me mental strength.
We need be careful of how we label ourselves, for example, saying "I'm an fearful person" or "I'm a weak person" or "I'm not a strong person." Usually that label comes from your current or past behavior, but once the label becomes a part of you, it starts to control you. So what I try to get people to understand is: Hey, you're not broken. You don't need to be fixed. You don't need a label. All you need to do is say, "I have to decide how I want to be now going forward."
2. Develop a Habit
Courage is not the absence of fear. That idea is the biggest b.s. in the world. Fear is impossible to eradicate. If you were completely fearless, you'd be dead. People who are courageous are scared to the core—they just make themselves go forward anyway; they make themselves take some kind of action. Taking action, even though you're afraid, is how you become courageous—because courage, like fear, is a habit. The more you do it, the more you do it, and this habit—of stepping up, of taking action—more than anything else, will move you in a different direction.
3. Let Your Body Lead the Way
Taking that action for the first time can be pretty rough. When it comes time to give the speech to the committee or snowboard down the mountain, don't hesitate. Don't start to analyze it. The longer you stand there, the harder it gets, because then your mind gets involved. If your challenge is mental, use your body. If it's in the body, use your body more aggressively. At 17 years old, I was on my own, sleeping in a laundry room. I had no idea what to do. I was so depressed. Fear is physically debilitating. I had to defeat it. So I made myself run until I thought I was going to spit up blood. I got stronger in my body, which, in turn gave me mental strength.
Read more: http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Tony-Robbins-How-to-Live-Courageously#ixzz1qqF2l66z
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
where would we be withot your kid?
Hi blog family!
ask yourself and your kids:
Where would this world be without you?
Someone would be less,
could see less,
be less,
could be gone, had you not come along.....
hold on, keep faith..
the next time you think of hurting yourself or giving up,
hold on,
hold out,
we need you!!
All things change all the time!!!
Smile, someone is watching you - you may save or change a life!! lol...
Tanya
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Spell Check TEMPORARILY - How-to-Spell.net
learning how to spell is essential!!
after FB and BMM on the blackberry, some, myself included, could use this site.. learn how to spell and check your work...i am working on this myself!!
Have a blessed day, be kind to everyone you meet, you may save or change a life!! :)
Tanya
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Happy New Year!!
Happy New Year!!
Hi blog family!
Happy New Year to all my blog readers!!!! We did it! Another year! WOW!
For your foster kids, ask them: So you made it into a new year!!
Congratulations for staying strong and NEVER giving up!!
Now is the time for you to reassess what YOU need to do NOW to make THIS year BETTER than last and more productive!!
Take that singing class, write your first poem or script, record that album, start your new business, find your new mate or friends,
find your talent and gifts - and let them guide you to your greatness!!!!
xo
Tanya
Happy New Year to all my blog readers!!!! We did it! Another year! WOW!
For your foster kids, ask them: So you made it into a new year!!
Congratulations for staying strong and NEVER giving up!!
Now is the time for you to reassess what YOU need to do NOW to make THIS year BETTER than last and more productive!!
Take that singing class, write your first poem or script, record that album, start your new business, find your new mate or friends,
find your talent and gifts - and let them guide you to your greatness!!!!
xo
Tanya
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