blog for foster parents OR those who adopted older kids. Abandonment is an issue that must be addressed. This site is so that you may keep your eyes, ears and heart open to daily struggles. Fosterparentsonly - teaching them what only a child that survived the system can--how to make winners out of your foster children!! you can always email us if you need an immediate answer: tgirlcooper@yahoo.com
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Thursday, August 4, 2011
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: The book is ready on createspace!!
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: The book is ready on createspace!!: "Hi blog family! SURVIVING FOSTER CARE AND MAKING IT WORK FOR YOU ! click link to book or purchase at: www.createspace.com/3587372 ..."
Monday, July 25, 2011
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: knowing u have divine purpose
knowing u have divine purpose
Hi blog family!! Don't be startled!
I decided to do a makeover ..just for fun, i like me the way i am and only wear makeup for tv...but i was thinking maybe we should all do a mental makeover!! :)
I am saddend every time i hear of a young person, like Amy Winehouse dying. Why? because it does not matter how she went, she is gone and we have lost a person who may have been caught up in addiction BUT her voice was her tool that God/the universe allowed her to use to heal our pain.
We all have divine purpose; homeless, addicts, old, young, at some point, you touched someone's life! This is not to say your life has to be good it could be in pure chaos but if Most of us think back, we have effected somene sometime somewhere!!
Know that you have divine purpose and you are needed by the universe.
Without each and everyone of you, something may NOT get done today.
Without you Something MAY get done today, that was not intended..
.think of how you help others,
how you love others, how you have hurt or changed others, at the end of the day when we die, ask yourself: what have I done, to change the world, starting with me.....it is never too late to change....
you are loved, divine and special have a lovely night xo
Tanya
I decided to do a makeover ..just for fun, i like me the way i am and only wear makeup for tv...but i was thinking maybe we should all do a mental makeover!! :)
I am saddend every time i hear of a young person, like Amy Winehouse dying. Why? because it does not matter how she went, she is gone and we have lost a person who may have been caught up in addiction BUT her voice was her tool that God/the universe allowed her to use to heal our pain.
We all have divine purpose; homeless, addicts, old, young, at some point, you touched someone's life! This is not to say your life has to be good it could be in pure chaos but if Most of us think back, we have effected somene sometime somewhere!!
Know that you have divine purpose and you are needed by the universe.
Without each and everyone of you, something may NOT get done today.
Without you Something MAY get done today, that was not intended..
.think of how you help others,
how you love others, how you have hurt or changed others, at the end of the day when we die, ask yourself: what have I done, to change the world, starting with me.....it is never too late to change....
you are loved, divine and special have a lovely night xo
Tanya
Thursday, July 21, 2011
how old? warning for parents
Hi Foster Parents!!
I am sure you heard about the young boy killed walking alone to school....just 8 years old!!
My words today are: please don't allow your kids to walk anywhere alone under 13 years old!!
Even at 10 with a buddy/family member perhaps.
8 is way too young, there are no decision making skills, this is why the poor boy not only went to a car for help, but got in!
He is innocent and did not know how to "judge" anyone, as far as he was concerned, the world was perfect and he was loved.
Usually - (unless they come from a horrible background of abuse/violence etc..) Crime never enters an 8 year old mind because he/she is at a precious age of innocence.
It was his parents job to protect him from monsters like this!
No one can ever be 100% safe but this was an unfortunate price for a parent to pay for "letting your kid find themselves and be grown up"...
*A few kids parents stated he tried to get them in the car....this guy is a serious pedophile and it would not shock me if they find more victims....and if they don't its because he "got rid of the evidence".
How do we as parents avoid this? Don't allow your kids to walk alone anywhere and don't leave them in the care of strangers OR people they ARE NOT comfortable with!! Especially foster kids, they will not usually tell you someone is threatening or hurting them...they don't want to be "moved again" or lose the only home they liked!!
I knew a man who told me his mothers best friend use to make him perform" acts while she babysit!! I have heard this many times, sad part is, they never told there parents they were only 9 and 10 years old..she was 40...clearly a female pedophile!!
I wonder how many more this monster hurt?......
think before we act as parents, it is our job to provide love, protect and keep safe...
thanks Tanya
I am sure you heard about the young boy killed walking alone to school....just 8 years old!!
My words today are: please don't allow your kids to walk anywhere alone under 13 years old!!
Even at 10 with a buddy/family member perhaps.
8 is way too young, there are no decision making skills, this is why the poor boy not only went to a car for help, but got in!
He is innocent and did not know how to "judge" anyone, as far as he was concerned, the world was perfect and he was loved.
Usually - (unless they come from a horrible background of abuse/violence etc..) Crime never enters an 8 year old mind because he/she is at a precious age of innocence.
It was his parents job to protect him from monsters like this!
No one can ever be 100% safe but this was an unfortunate price for a parent to pay for "letting your kid find themselves and be grown up"...
*A few kids parents stated he tried to get them in the car....this guy is a serious pedophile and it would not shock me if they find more victims....and if they don't its because he "got rid of the evidence".
How do we as parents avoid this? Don't allow your kids to walk alone anywhere and don't leave them in the care of strangers OR people they ARE NOT comfortable with!! Especially foster kids, they will not usually tell you someone is threatening or hurting them...they don't want to be "moved again" or lose the only home they liked!!
I knew a man who told me his mothers best friend use to make him perform" acts while she babysit!! I have heard this many times, sad part is, they never told there parents they were only 9 and 10 years old..she was 40...clearly a female pedophile!!
I wonder how many more this monster hurt?......
think before we act as parents, it is our job to provide love, protect and keep safe...
thanks Tanya
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Life after death?
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: Life after death?: "Hi BLog family! R.I.P LITTLE BROTHER!! it has been a minute but i am back!! I had to reflect on my brother's death and figure out how..."
Sunday, July 10, 2011
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: R.I.P Little brother
EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: R.I.P Little brother: "hi blog family! Today marks 2 years @ 10:15am that my baby brother died.. (i have one younger who was adopted, in Elmsford NY around 3..."
Saturday, July 2, 2011
fosterkidsonly: words from Wallace D. Wattles -Efficient Action
fosterkidsonly: words from Wallace D. Wattles -Efficient Action: "Hi blog family! I know, summer has been fun...are you reading? writing in your journal... . i am sharing this from another site- the orgi..."
Friday, July 1, 2011
fosterkidsonly: Croix Sather begins his journey across America in ...
fosterkidsonly: Croix Sather begins his journey across America in ...: "hi blog family!! This is my friends brother, changing the world!! look at this and help change the world!! xo Tanya Croix Sather begins his ..."
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